A
New Law For New Life
Seventh
week of the Year: Friday, May 20, 2016
Mark
10:1-12. Year
I: Sirach 6:5-17; Psalm 119:12-35; Year II: James 5:9-12; Psalm 10:1-12.
Jesus
cannot be accused of remaining abstract. Having established that the Good News
is greater than anything humans could conceive of, both in what it promises and
in what it demands — and having shown himself transfigured as the source of it
— he goes on to show how the Good News transfigures two of the most basic
values in human life: sexual love and (Mark 10:21) property ownership (see
Monday, Eighth Week).
Some
Pharisees introduce the first issue by asking what Jesus thinks about divorce.
Knowing their legalistic mentality, Jesus asks, “What did Moses command you?”
They answer, “Moses permitted divorce.” Jesus replies, “He wrote that
commandment for you because of your hardness of heart.” Then he goes on to
explain what marriage is in God’s eyes: “The two become one flesh. They are no
longer two, but one flesh. So what God has joined together, let no one
separate.”
Jesus
didn’t get into a discussion about divorce under the Old Law. He goes to a
different level and explains the ideal of sacramental marriage as God sees it,
and points out that—on the plane of his New Law, where words take on a higher
meaning—to divorce a wife just to marry another is like adultery. But before we
presume that “adultery” means the same thing every time it is used in the
Bible, we need to consult the Scripture scholars. In our ordinary speech
there is a difference between the clear adultery of having an uncommitted
affair with a married person and the less clear “adultery” of entering into an
official, if non-sacramental, second marriage with a divorced person, intending
to sustain the new relationship “till death do us part.” How was Jesus using
the word when he applied it to those who remarried?
If
we take Jesus literally when he says, “Whoever divorces his wife… and marries
another commits adultery,” we have to take him literally when he says in Matthew
19:9 and 24, “It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than
for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God”—that is, impossible. The
inescapable literal conclusion would be that we have to deny Communion to
everyone who is rich.
Divorce
is not part of God’s plan; it goes against the way things are supposed to be —
something keenly felt by every person who has suffered through the experience
of one. This prompted the great moral theologian Father Bernard Häring to write:
“Personally, I would be ashamed of myself
if I felt even the slightest temptation to judge divorced and remarried people
as ‘living objectively in a state of grave sin’ after they have suffered so
much pain and humiliation in the total breakdown of their first marriage” (Priesthood Imperiled, pp. 24, 42).
Jesus
is not making a precise law. He is holding up an ideal. But in her pastoral
policy the Church doesn’t have that option. She has to translate ideals into
practical laws to keep the community united. Where Jesus just speaks of
“divorce,” Canon Law specialists will spell out precisely “after a ratified and
consummated sacramental marriage between two baptized persons.” And they will specify
the legal consequences of entering into another marriage not recognized by
Church law. Jesus isn’t speaking like this.
Church
law allows divorce and remarriage in certain cases and for the sake of a higher
good: for example, the conversion of one of the parties. And laws have changed
over the years (see the New Dictionary of
Sacramental Worship, 1990; Code of Canon Law, 1141-1150; and google
“Pauline, Petrine Privilege”). Jesus’ focus was not on crafting a law, but on
presenting marriage as God envisions and desires it. He is teaching us how to
“be perfect, as our heavenly Father is perfect” (Matthew 5:48). To be authentic
Christians, this is the kind of marriage we have to believe in. Whether we are
always able to live up to it in practice is important, but most important is
our heart’s sincere desire to try, and never to be comfortable with less.
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